Femdom
While you don’t need to pursue a career as a professional Domme unless you choose to, once you experience this empowerment, you may find yourself exploring new possibilities.
This is an opportunity not to be underestimated! Many women inadvertently restrict their potential and the richness of their experiences due to deeply ingrained patriarchal conditioning—often referred to as "good girl conditioning." This mindset operates on autopilot, limiting their awareness of what they can truly achieve. It's time embrace the full spectrum of your potential!
Why Femdom
Oriella Verdi's training sets itself apart from other programs by incorporating a psychological approach that delves into the female psyche, kink psychology of subs and the dynamics of submission. This distinctive perspective empowers you in your personal life and enables you to create enriching and fulfilling experiences for yourself and your subs/clients. Furthermore, it provides you with the tools to protect yourself and identify subs/slaves who may try to manipulate or exploit you—skills that will prove beneficial in your personal life as well, particularly when dating.
BDSM
Mastery of CP skills represents only a fraction, at 20%, of what it takes to dominate. It is the application of psychology that truly sets topping apart from true domination. Each session with a sub/client provides a space for the Domme to reveal the repressed darker aspects of herself, often stifled by societal gender norms for women, while the sub can embrace their submissiveness, a lighter side that is also suppressed due to societal expectations placed on men.
The minimum age to participate in the training is 21. Femme Fatale Dominatrix Training is not designed for women seeking to feign dominance for quick financial gain. Rather, it focuses on the transformation of your energy, psyche, demeanour and gaining understanding of true domination. This transformation will significantly enhance your personal life and your work as a Domme, should you choose to pursue that path.
Synergy
Like many professionals Dominatrices, I developed my style and approach to female domination through trial and error.
From my observation, having extensive knowledge of dungeon equipment alone is not enough. Without the proper synergy between the Domme and the sub, the experience will feel mechanical and disconnected.
Equally important is having synergy with your training Domme to fully enhance the experience and make progress. Trust your intuition to determine if someone is the right fit. If you feel a natural attraction and connect with their energy, they are likely the perfect choice.
Art
Skills
Energy
You draw in the type of clients that reflect the quality you present. Therefore, to draw in high-quality clients, you must embody that same quality yourself.
Copying what other Dommes post on social media will not bring about high-quality subs, as you lack the genuine energy of the persona you are trying to project. Particularly, subs who have experience can easily sense your energy and discern whether you are authentic or not.
'When the student is ready the teacher will appear."
— Tao Te Ching
How to Enquire
Provide details about yourself and clarify your interest in the program when inquiring about the training and mentoring opportunities.
