About DCMM Training
DCMM is a comprehensive one-day training session. The initial phase of the training program focuses on challenging and reshaping your existing identity, as it serves as the primary influencer of your decision-making process and your ability to dominate clients. The subsequent section of the training delves into the kink psychological of men seeking female domination. This section presents critical information that delivers practical insights aimed at assisting you in obtaining the treatment you seek, even within your personal relationships. The final segment of the training is to help you embody the energy of a multidimensional Dominatrix, which lies within you but has remained dormant, representing a part of yourself that has yet to be fully explored.
The Benefits
Designed for women seeking to shatter the glass ceiling of traditional roles and exchange weakness for power. Whether they aim to redefine how men treat them, shift into a state of assertiveness and confidence where they no longer feel afraid to express their voices, or aspire to become a Pro-Domme by mastering the true art of domination and crafting impactful sessions with clients. DCMM falls in perfect sync with women who refuse to be undervalued and want more for themselves.
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Each Dominatrix (Domme) has a unique approach shaped by their individual experiences and what has proven effective for them. Therefore, claims made by certain Dommes and Dominatrix establishments asserting that their training are ideal for all women seeking to learn the art of domination are, quite frankly, BS, misleading and indicative of arrogance rather than genuine expertise.
Have you ever purchased a one-size-fits-all garment that turned out to fit terribly? If a single garment cannot accommodate every body type, a singular approach to Dominatrix training will not suit every woman interested in learning female domination.
In addition, the importance of connection and synergy cannot be overstated. After spending time with lifestyle submissives who had also paid for Dominatrix services, it became evident that, despite the Domme's extensive knowledge of dungeon equipment, the experience felt mechanical and disconnected. Similarly, establishing a harmonious synergy with the Domme guiding your training is paramount in maximizing the overall experience and making progress in female domination.
How do you determine if someone is the right fit for you? A good rule of thumb is to trust your intuition. If you feel a natural attraction to the person and resonate with their expression, it is highly likely that they are the right choice for you.
Why Embrace The Dominatrix in You
Why embody the energy of a Dominatrix even if you have no desire to become one?
I have frequently observed that while many women achieve significant success in their professional careers, they often encounter challenges related to assertiveness and personal empowerment in private settings. I firmly believe it is essential for women to harness their power across all facets of life; however, many find themselves constrained, adopting roles that do not serve them well.
The story I am about to share is deeply personal, but I know that many women will relate to it: growing up in an unsavoury environment influenced me to work tirelessly to meet the needs of others in order to feel valued. I excelled at satisfying men's desires and fulfilling their fantasies, but the validation I sought was temporary. These relationships were rooted in unhealthy dynamics, causing to diminish the opinion I had of myself.
Eventually, I became tired of that nonsense and resolved to alter this dynamic and ventured into the realm of domination. I discovered a newfound enjoyment in exerting authority and assertiveness, rather than being at the mercy of men’s desires. I experienced a profound sense of liberation, no longer held back by societal norms. I discovered a newfound freedom to embrace a version of myself that transcended my previous limitations.
Furthermore, my profound understanding of shame proved to be pure gold whilst delivering domination sessions—subs/clients very often battle with feelings of shame and seek understanding and acceptance.
Age and Beauty
Many women express concerns about feeling too old or not beautiful enough to become a Dominatrix. However, true power does not reside in age or appearance. The following personal experience illustrates this point: In my late twenties, I had an eating disorder. No matter how much weight I lost, I always felt I wasn't good enough. One day, as I indulged in a leisurely shopping spree to momentarily escape the weight of negative emotions about myself, I suddenly halted in fascination, captivated by a curvaceous woman who moved with a remarkable sensuality and grace. I found myself staring in absolute admiration of her confidence and the enchanting energy she exuded. This experience led me to realise the power of how one feels and see themselves.
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BDSM
Mastery of CP skills represents only a fraction, at 20%, of what it takes to dominate. It is the application of psychology that truly sets topping apart from true domination. Each session with a sub/client provides a space for the Domme to reveal the repressed darker aspects of herself, often stifled by societal gender norms for women, while the sub can embrace their submissiveness, a lighter side that is also suppressed due to societal expectations placed on men.
The minimum age to participate in the training is 21. DCMM Dominatrix Training is not designed for women seeking to feign dominance for quick financial gain. Rather, it focuses on the transformation of your energy, psyche, demeanour and gaining understanding of true domination. This transformation will significantly enhance your personal life and your work as a Domme, should you choose to pursue that path.
Art
Skills
Energy
You draw in the type of clients that reflect the quality you present. Therefore, to draw in high-quality clients, you must embody that same quality yourself.
Copying what other Dommes post on social media will not bring about high-quality subs, as you lack the genuine energy of the persona you are trying to project. Particularly, subs who have experience can easily sense your energy and discern whether you are authentic or not.
'When the student is ready the teacher will appear."
— Tao Te Ching
DCMM Femdom Toolkit
As a woman and an aspiring Dominatrix, your energy is an incredibly valuable asset. DCMM Training sets itself apart from other programs by providing a deep understanding of submissive psychology, enabling you to craft rewarding experiences for your submissives. Furthermore, it provides you with the tools to protect yourself and identify subs/slaves who may try to manipulate or exploit you—skills that will prove beneficial in your personal life as well, particularly when dating.
Lessons I learnt
Empathy, care and compassion are not weaknesses; rather, they are powerful traits that can significantly enhance one’s effectiveness as a multidimensional Dominatrix.
Sometimes, experiences that may first appear to be a waste of time can turn out to be valuable and transformative. For instance, in 2017, I spent £3,500 on one-on-one coaching and pursued a career as a life coach. Shortly after, I chose to close my business and return to my passion for art. For years, I regarded that experience as a squandered investment of both time and money. However, I eventually realised that the skills and knowledge I gained during that period were instrumental for my Dominatrix training.
Exerting control, manipulation, seduction and command subs to bend to your will through your language, energy, and actions is not easy; this is why true domination requires ongoing evolution.
The Dominatrix plays a central role in dissolving shame that affects subs throughout their lives. Shame operates at the lowest vibrational level. A Dominatrix who is well-versed in domination psychology has the ability to elevate subs from shame to a place of acceptance.
Training Options
Submit your interest via the contact form below providing the following information about yourself:
- Your current identity and who you want to become
- The reasons you wish to undergo the training
In-person Dominatrix Training:
In-person one-on-one training with Oriella Verdi (fully booked—unavailable at the moment. Consider opting for email package training).
Email Package Dominatrix Training Program
Five weeks training via email with Oriella Verdi