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Female Domination
Oriella Verdi
I am intuitively smart, aloof, severe, and multidimensional. I am forward-thinking and speak concisely, going straight to the heart of the matter. It is undeniable that I take great pleasure in the act of breaking subs into submission, especially men who are arrogant within their vanilla world, inflicting punishment, and watching them tremble in fear and anticipation. Observing MY subs endure specific forms of humiliation brings a wicked smile to my face―I love it. Being an artist is what makes me an exceptional Dominatrix. I weave my creativity into Domming scenes that fulfil psychological fantasies.
On your knees, slave
BDSM & Balance
In Western society, men often embody dominant energy, facing societal pressures to take charge and assume leading roles in all aspects of their lives. However, when they are permitted to embrace submissive energy during a BDSM session, they experience a greater sense of balance and inner peace.
BDSM & Psychology
- Men harbour an unconscious need and desire to be in the presence of, serve, and look up to a powerful female figure, which is personified by the Dominatrix. She represents all the strong female influences from their formative years. When in the presence of a Femdom/Dominatrix, they are taken back to those carefree days of their childhood and adolescence when they didn't have all the responsibilities of adulthood weighing them down.
- Men with a high-powered career and kinky needs often find themselves living in secrecy, hiding a part of themselves to avoid job loss and disappointing their family and friends. This leads to a sense of shame, as their needs are perceived as inappropriate, coupled with frustration due to the lack of an outlet where they can express themselves freely without fear of societal judgment. In this context, the intelligent and knowledgeable Dominatrix provides these men a safe space for acceptance and understanding.
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Session & Rules
Pre-scene conversation:
We will discuss your specific submissive fantasies, kinks and fetishes, physical and emotional limitations, erotic trigger words and anti-erotic trigger words, and style of domination you crave of a Domme.
Non-negotiable:
Full payment is required at the time of booking (Terms & Conditions)
No sexual services
The Play of Your Dark Fantasies
What to include
In the contact form:
- Your profession
- Your age
- Your experience with BDSM/Femdom
- Why you desire a session with ME
- What you seek to experience in the session
BDSM Domming & Subs
Subs, more often than not, want to engage in a D/s dynamic rather than the T/b dynamic, because the mind, not the genital, is the main sex organ.
The Dominatrix's power is directly proportional to the willingness of the submissive to grant it. A deeper connection and trust with the submissive enhances the Dominatrix's influence over them.
The Dominatrix plays a central role in dissolving the shame experienced by men with BDSM needs throughout their lives. A Dominatrix who understand the principle of domination psychology has the ability to elevate these men from shame to a place of acceptance.
Using domination language, such as explaining the reasons behind punishment, introduces a psychological aspect to the power exchange, leading the submissive to feel that their will has been taken away, leaving them with no choice in the matter, which is the main erotic element of D/s interactions.
The language of domination (dominant tone, commanding language, sadistic language, and Domme centric language) allows the submissive to enter a state where they can surrender control and transition into a subspace. This is the power of words, language, and psychology.
When a Dominatrix is excessively in her head and appears to be following a predetermined script rather than being in the moment, the session will feel artificial, stiff, and devoid of connection. Empathy is a remarkable gift; it serves as the inner compass that leads to sessions that deeply immerse subs in a different reality.
To break down the intricate realm of BDSM, I personally categorise it into three main sections:
- Topping: This encompasses activities of pure kink play, where the Domme may seem to be in charge but is actually serving the submissive by administering pain for their gratification. Therefore, the bottom ultimately holds the power.
- BDSM porn.
- True Domination: This classification revolves around the power dynamics manifested through psychological influence, epitomising authentic domination and power exchange within BDSM.
The latter is the type of domination that holds my interest and is the focus of my work.
Subs seek an escape from the real world, desiring the relief that comes from being free of responsibilities and the pressure of decision making. The Dominatrix is the channel to an altered reality, and the session itself is the altered reality.
When a Dominatrix crafts a session, she creates a magical world for the sub to inhabit. This is where creativity merge with the Femdom persona. Domming is art.